hi aries

i understand that feeling of wanting to connect with another in a special way... especially if we're lonely we feel so out of the circle that the connection becomes really valuable to us and just being held and loved is so deeply wanted that we might begin to long for it more and more.... we feel so out of the circle we begin to feel the despair of unrequited love...

when someone appears in our life who shows us the kindness we are looking for those first feelings are exciting and we are thrilled to imagine that this person may be just the very one we've been waiting to meet... but love has many separate natures within it... the theory of one love undivided is an undisputed truth yet we often forget the many dimensions within the term...

those feelings you have now are asking you if she is the one and only, or at least one right now.. obviously something very powerful is about to happen between the two of you, whether it be romance or other...

if it is not romance it can still be great friendship because the two of you are meeting in the area of support and healing.. a very tender area...

as you continue being kind towards each other and learning more about friendship and personal boundaries, your feelings will stir about and be confusing to you...

dont despair, do not choose dark opinions of yourself, others, or life itself....

let yourself feel and learn... love never harms, only heals and always leads us back to try again in some way... we cannot live without love... learn all you can about it and it will help your life be a fuller and more enriching place... take your time, never too fast, never too much self pressure... let yourself go at a safe pace always.. safe is when you dont get hurt somehow, but dont hide either... be as brave as you can be, honest in all things, and have faith in the process... eventually you will know and understand its healing benefits...

best always..