My heart breaks for you.
I am so sorry that things are so hard for you and your husband.
My husband is also a Iraq war Vet (one tour... June 07 to May of this year)
and he definitely was... different... when he came back. I am afraid he may
have PTSD too... although he has not seen a doctor yet. So, I kind of under-
stand what you are going through. If you ever need to talk/vent, I am just a
private message away.
*offers hugs*