I understand how frustrating it can all be, but in the grand scheme of things, 61 days and 2 counseling sessions is but a tiny drop in the bucket when it comes to repairing a marriage, or even coming to a decision as to whether or not to continue trying.

It takes a lot of work to repair a relationship. There are personal repairs and couple repairs that need to be made. Time and hard work cannot be replaced by the sheer wanting of things to work out.

One has to dig deeply to find the patience and compassion needed to wait things out. It's not easy.....not by a long shot.

I hope you strive to help yourself through this as well as work on understanding where things went wrong and what can be done to fix them if anything at all. Remember that actions speak louder than words and if there are changes that you have to make to help convince her that you love her and want to change, she will need to see the proof, not just listen to the words.

I wish you well!


sabby