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I think wanttoheal's idea of writing it down is a great idea. I write things down for T sometimes - and sometimes it's scary and I leave the room while he reads it. He has never, ever rejected me for anything I have written down or told him. Ever.

You are so brave going to a new T. Kiya is right - trust your instincts. Maybe you can write down what you need to tell him and go from there.