What happened with tribal health? What is the complication concerning you getting psych meds? I feel for you having to go through this, especially with everything hitting at once.

You've probably already done everything you can and then some, but would it work to tell your husband that you really really need help with a shower, right now? Also is there a health care provider you can tell today that you are experiencing an increase in mental health challenges?

The shakes may or may not be a pain response, can you get this checked out soon?

Also - any chance at all of getting a home health care person to help you out?