As you all know and I have said over and over My son has PDD. Also
OCD. ALSo LD.
Life when he was young was so hard I can not even begin to tell you.
Never was there a manual for this...
Every day for him there was a new danger. I had to face every day with
calmness ((kindness to him))
That's how i reached him. Not that i am perfect as I am not, by any
stretch........
He could not speak. Could not understand basic dangers. I had to lead
him and show him.
Never ever did I choose to hit him. If i had it would have destroyed
him. That i know forsure in my heart.
He was so sensitive. He needed love to guide him. Not violence.
He himself was so angry at times threw his life had i showed it
back...it would have taught him it was ok..
Its not....at all........
I remember myself being young. As i said before on here. Being hit.
It totally backed me into a corner.
Made me feel like Dirt...Dirt is not a good place...nor is the corner.....
Children can be shown with out being hit...
I have two kids who have proved it to be true...
trust me there has been many issues...
There is just no other way for me.......No other answer for them..
They have grown up to be good adults...with never being hit by me...

may you each know ((you matter)))(((as all children do)))))))
muffy