To me, the interesting thing it is, ...for people who CAN handle arguements...it's fighting is no big deal. It's just what they do to problem solve. So for them it might be healthy to argue back and forth for ages.

But to the ill equiped, ...or injured, or argue-impaired, or whatever "we" are...it's simply overwhelming. That's why I'm glad those ucky posts go "poof".

Maybe when I'm stronger, I could handle it, but not now. That's why I love PsychCentral. It feels safer for me now. ((((docjohn))))

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