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Originally Posted by KathyM
((Muffy))
They should all be loved through good and bad, but I have a problem with making them all "winners." It would be like giving every student an A on their exams, regardless of how well they performed on the test. It may cause less strain on the teachers and on the kids while they are young, but it would make it that much harder for them in the real world when they are older. It would teach them to ignore their lessons in life - because they are already winners and deserve the highest grade. 
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(((kathyM)))))))))))))))) What i said was "all children In my eyes are winners" Meaning every child has self worth. Is a good loving person. That needs understanding. To me it had nothing to do with grades or awards. It has to do with each one. being A gift
As you know I have two children. One having PDD one who has no problems at college.((with grades))
Each one of them is and always will be a winner to me
Both have learned many lessons in thier lifes. Trust me...
My sons highest grade? Do I compare it to my daughters? never awwww
Do they both know real life..I think so...
Maybe I used the incorrect word ((winners)))
They are my children
and i love them.
They are blessings........
All as I meant was kids are so very important. They all need our love and to be listened too.....and never ever to be made feel they are less..
Or can not come to us.......
You are a good person(( KathyM)))))
