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Old Oct 24, 2008, 04:37 PM
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Perzephone Perzephone is offline
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I don't think anything is wrong with you at all. However, from what you've written, it seems like you're rushing yourself into things, placing a lot of emphasis on your sexual orientation and trying to be in a relationship, and not just giving yourself time to being you.

Maybe you should take a step back from focusing on having a sexual relationship with someone, male or female, and take some time to get to know yourself better. You've got an entire lifetime to discover who you are, so just take your time. When you meet a person that is right for you to be with, sexually or friendship-wise, you'll know.

If all you want to do is experiment with sex (or flirting or whatever), don't worry about trying to turn a fun experimental thing into a relationship - just use protection and be honest with the other person (or people) so there aren't any hurt feelings or expectations.

Just for the record, I'm bi & found out at an early age that I liked boys and girls I am married to a man, but we have an open marriage - which is based on a lot of trust, communication and open-mindedness.
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