as much as i do miss him, i'm awfullyglad for that space of time i had "with" him.......i would not have missed that dance for anything.....the pain could never override the pure joy and rapture of hearing that voice on the phone....the chuckles...what a guy! today i was playing a CD in the 'puter and Dave Matthews always has impressed me with his "covers" and his take on "In My Life" is so frigging wonderful and soft and sweet.....even better than my fave, Judy Collins and the Beatles. it got me to thinking and i wanted to share it with you guys. when he died, he had a letter in his billfold that i had written almost 8 years earlier... talk about bawling........