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Old Oct 25, 2008, 02:23 AM
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bottom line, it seems like you need to discern the T's motive in asking. if her asking is to control you, that would be a negative. if she asks to check on your well being then she is motivated by your need for some help.

most of my life i was in pain and i was invisible. i guess i consider someone asking is usually a sign of concern.

an important question for you to consider: why do you go to a T? if you want help you need to realize that part of a T's job is to ask uncomfortable questions to help you realize why you are in pain and what can be done about it. one last question for you: do you want help and what will you do/not do to get help?
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