Marriage counseling is so hard!
My H and I have been in counseling together for the last 10 months. And in that time we have had 2 counselors. The first seemed to be making us worse, so we went to another one. The second has been much better and seems to "get" us individually and as a couple. But it has not been easy at all. It is such a struggle bringing up all of the old resentments, hurt, and neglect in our relationship.
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Originally Posted by Doh2007
My experience is that you will address what caused the infidelities just by going to counseling. Assigning blame doesn't do anything to forward progress.
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Also I agree with the above quote. My experience has been showing up and making a commitment to talk about what is going on no matter how scared I am has helped...Even if my H doesn't want to go there.
Take care
~searching