Very good point. I definately am going to have my wishes put into a legal document, we can't always trust what our spouses may do years from now, especially if a new person comes into the picture.
It is just one of those things, we should all do if we haven't already.
I still haven't even done a Will yet, another thing I must do.
I hope all of this that went down with Terry, encourages people to think and re-think their plans, and not leave anyone having to make a life or death decision, cause that is a difficult place to be in.
Thanks for your replies.

DE