What a terrible situation to be in. The only reason my husband & I reconciled is because of his health insurance. I was worried I would lose my job (which I did) and be without coverage. As for you, I don't really have any answers, except to say what my sister does (she is also without insurance). When my sister has any medical crisis she goes to the emergency room, and they have to help her. She has gone so many times, that the hospital started Social Security Disability paperwork for her. Again, I'm not necessarily suggesting this route--I'm just relaying what she does. I hope you are able to find a workable solution for you. Until then, do everything within your power to hold on.