You definately sound just like me before I got my meds stable. The cooking and cleaning, etc.. I also volunteered at my child's school only to drop out weeks later due to depresion. I didn't like to bathe either. Everything was an effort. My depressions are what really bothered my husband. He hated to see me laying around all the time and sleeping.
Bizi gave some good advise, I'd act on that.