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Maybe your friend is not sure what to say to you or how to react to your BP.
I went on medical leave back in December for two months. I kept in close contact with only a few friends and family members. I can remember talking to a friend of mine and it was like i was talking to myself. he did turn things around but I think its because he didnt know what to say.
On the other hand, my very best friend in the world took it upon herself to research depression, anxiety disorder and OCD so she could ask questions and better relate to me. She was the only person that came to see me while I wasnt "myself". She lives an hour away and still managed to see me every weekend. I can remember the first time she came to see me she held my hand until I fell asleep.

Im sorry, now Ive done it. I have turned it around to be about me. Damn it. Im sorry.
What I wanted to say was, maybe your friend does not know what to say or how to comfort you. maybe you might want to be open about this with her. Maybe she has no idea.
As far as the nasty voicemails you have received. There is no excuse for that. Maybe just talking about it might help.
Im sorry I wasnt any help for you.