hi (((molly))) you need a lot of comforting now and thats ok.. you are using your verbal skills really well and the tears are understandable...

dont hate yourself now, k? now is really really the time to hang in there and be good to you....

you're having these feelings that you think he is the one, but there is hurt now...

what does he want to do? more important, what do you want to do?

cant promise youll get him back, thats all up to you two, but if you really want him and if he can give a little right now and you both can remember what it was supposed to be like and try again with no faults or forgiveness required, just starting over in a way, you could try... you'll both have to accept that trust is now a very serious issue and there will be sensitive times for awhile... you can set the boundaries for your own healing...

only you know best! even if you make a mistake you get the chance of trying again...

this is said with the belief he is not any type of abuser.... i would never recommend you let yourself be abused in any way... choose kindness hon.... caring..