you are not wrong!! you are not wrong!! i went through almost the same thing in many year ago..we used the SAME lawyer. please stiffen that backbone, schedule a visit with your lawyer, bow to that judge and get what's coming to you and your children....you are not wrong! he has walked all over you and lied over and over and over to you. he's a manipulative piece of **** and actually should be stepped on........and tomorrow, i'll tell you how i REALLY feel about your situation. xoxoxo pat