yes, people would notice.

you have heard the saying - fake it till you make it!

you are doing that by taking care of the basics everyday ...
one day, it will be effortless, and you will do more things ....
one day, shortly thereafter, you will no longer walk with heartache, but confidence instead...

you can fake it till you make it! (just be honest with your T and DR's and stuff, and your feelings ... with those you trust, the fakin comin in about going thru the motions)

Love always,
Night