Yes, that is hard.

You probably realize that 'he' has triggers too, and maybe some form of mental issue going on. So many of our parents do, that has gone on their whole lives, undiagnosed.

It is you who something can be done for, you who do not have to remain a victim, at the whims of someone elses outbursts.

You can save money, right? You can figure out ways to get an income, which always makes us feel better, and those around us have a way of treating us better when they assign a monetary value to our days - as ridiculous as that is - it's a cultural dysfunction we share, even in families.

Ebay may be a good place to start, if you have to be home.

Hey, if you can carve out enough peace there, you could start your own little cottage business, or provide a service - something you are good at, from home... just tell the dad (with the big mouth) that they must be quiet ... for the time being when you are working.

Anyway, just an idea on how to get someone off your back while helping you get ahead!

Hope you are doing better today.

I send all positive thoughts your way, for a place of your own and a wonderful job sometime, and a terrific attitude to wake up with, as well as much love!!!!!

xoxoxoxoxox