hmmm... it troubles me that he would find something wrong with you loving your son even when you're down. i had a major depressive episode that required inpatient treatment. and though it was terrible, i still loved my boys. they are what kept me alive. they actually both got sick with bronchitis while i was in the hospital and i was so concerned about them that i completely disregarded what i was going through and was overly concerned about them. i don't know about that comment. i don't see what that has to do with bipolar disorder. i would be annoyed too. i hope everything works out for you and hey if you feel uncomfortable with that T find someone else. you have to do whatever you need to do for yourself.