I have a gay best friend whom I am very close to. Becuase of our actions, he and I have been accused of being a couple multiple times by our friends. I fell in love with him sometime last year, and he freaked out becuase I developed the feelings for him. Now that I have tried to back off, he is very touchy and will often hold my hand in public. He willingly french kisses me, and we have both to some degree "inappropriately" touched each other (with clothes on). He was molested as a child, and I wonder if he is "gay" becuase of that inccident. He tried having a girlfriend before, but he didn't care about her. He actual cares for me, and I really dont know what I would do without him. i think that we run into many problems in our friendship becuase I am Bi and he wants me to be Lesbian. I feel that he wants me to identify as a lesbian because he won't have a reason to have feelings for me then. I just don't know what to do. Can anyone help?