ohmygod, Forgotten - I am so sorry - for whatever reason, I was seeing the username "Foolish" and thought I was talking to our other friend who is only 19, doesn't have sisters, and no kids that I know about! As far as I know, has a good relationship with his parents. And he doesn't like virtual hugs! My fault!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, back to you...
Well, if there is any chance of them hurting your children, you must keep them separated. Guaranteed. Your mother... well that is a tough one. If they are hurting her and she wants it to stop, and if you are her caregiver, then you must keep her away from them, too.

Do you have anyone in a church or community center that can coordinate a discussion? Gosh, Forgotten, I agree with you that it's a big problem, and I think you a real person should help you with it.

But tell us more, if you want. Examples help.

I send you lots and lots of hugs {{{{{Forgotten}}}}}}}}}

Your friend,
LMo

We are ALL going to be a-ok!