best of luck with the pdoc appt. she must be on a downer now since you mentioned that she slept throughout the weekend. do you guys have any children? i am sure it's hard for you to go to work and then have to take on complete responsibility of the home as well. i know because it was very difficult for my hubby when i got very depressed and wouldn't get out of bed or the sofa. i wouldn't even talk to him, and on the rare occasions when i did, i would go on about how i didn't want to live anymore. when i was hospitalized he had a very rough time because it was the first time he realized just how sick i was, and he spent alot of time crying. very sad. but now i am on a med that works for me and i am doing alot better. so with that said there is hope, and i really hope that they can find the right meds for her so she can also resume her life. unfortunately when you're in that state you become very selfish and you can't see how your behavior affects your partner and it's very difficult to snap out of the irrational thoughts that you're having. keep us posted. take care.

agony