My wife has been diagnosised with schizoaffected and is bi polar, some of her delusions are about me having affairs with different women and me being part of the people out to get her. She has attacked me in the past and tells me how much she hates me and most recently tried to stab me with a butcher knife. She is currently in the county jail waiting to be placed in a state hospital. I still care for her and wish that she would take her meds and get better and stop having these delusions about me. Last time she was one of the mental hospitals the Dr. told me that her delusions are fixed and may take some time to go away or may not ever go away. I am looking for advice to see when is it time to say its time to leave and start living my own life and stop waiting for her to take her meds and get herself better. Based on what the Dr. told me I don't know if she will always feel the way she feels about me. I really just want her to get better. I don't know how long she will be in the state hospital, since she refuses medication, so should I wait or is it time to move on.