Sunrise -

You are going through such a tough thing with so much grace and maturity. If this legal meeting is the first time you've blown your top, kudos to you! You're only human. You've worked so, so, so hard at this divorce. Give yourself some grace, and please try to let the embarassment go. I'll bet divorce lawyers have seen much, MUCH worse!

As for T - I'm glad he reached out to you. And I'm glad you asked for what you needed. Something T and I HATE about e-mail is the delayed response-time of it. It FEELS like "well, I typed it and sent it, and surely they are at their computer, and why are they ignoring me?" - when in reality, T is probably watching a show on TV, sleeping, eating breakfast, spending time with his family, etc. Not ignorning ME.

Perhaps you could call him and state the need today? If he's anything like my T, he might not check his e-mail that often, and by the time he gets around to it, it will be too late. (Plus...didn't you have an e-mail snafu before? I seem to remember e-mail not being the preferred method of communication with your T!)

Hang in there. You are doing great.