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I have the same type of family. I have only really forgiven my mother for all the s*it I endured as a child. i stay away from the rest of them because I want to avaid conflict and petty behavior. I'm sorry your mother makes you feel this way. I totally understand. It doesnt feel very good. All you can do is be the best mother you can be for your kids. Break that cycle of negativity.