Kvin, ever since you first posted I've been wondering what exactly you are worrying about. Maybe I don't understand and maybe I don't know everything there is to understand, but... it's always been my impression that you are just "super soft." I don't see anything wrong with that. In fact, I have a son that hubby and I have labeled that way. It certainly isn't derrogitory! He's always been sedentary, even in the womb! He's artistic and as artists go, he's emotionally sensitive, doesn't like to do manual work (only when there's no way out) and even walks a little funny. But then, so does his father. He's happily married with two sons. He's always liked girls but has never had any problem with hugging his male friends or his two brothers in public. He kisses his dad on the lips. I don't like that!! I don't know why, but it's my problem, not my son's.

Now then, on the hubby side of it, my husband loves his hair long; the longer the better. He says he loves to feel it bounce on his back when he walks. He also wears three earings; two in the left ear and one on the right. We went shopping over the weekend and we bought Caress Body Wash for the both of us! He normally buys Herbal Essence... probably waiting for that orgasmic experience... Wait a minute, that's supposed to be organic, isn't it? Either way... he uses "girly" toiletries. He loves the "girly" smell of them. He even uses the Caress body lotion. He likes for me to give him facials... in the places he doesn't have facial hair! LOL I've been married to the man for 27 years and as far as I know none of this has ever caused him any problems. He's been teased about it but he just smiles and agrees or says "Oh, well!"

Yeah... I guess I'm missing something...

Would it be too simplistic for me to say "Just enjoy your differences"?

<font color=blue>This above all: To thine own self be true. --Shakespeare</font color=blue>