<font face="Comic Sans MS">Hi Zenobia</font>
<font face="Comic Sans MS">I don't consider it standing up for myself but letting myself feel better. If someone is doing me direct harm I will try to put a stop to it. If it is already done, and it's not worthy of further discussion, then it's done, for whatever reason. An old timer had interesting view about this.</font>
<font face="Comic Sans MS">"It's hard to have one's watch stolen, but one reflects that the thief of the watch became a thief from causes of heredity and environment which are as interesting as they are scientifically comprehensible; and one buys another watch, if not with joy, at any rate with a philosophy that makes bitterness impossible." - Arnold Bennett (1867-1931)</font>
<font face="Forte"><font color="#FF0000">a</font><font color="#3366FF">Happy</font><font color="#00CC00">Day</font></font>