I have reacted a couple different ways when he is in one those moods. One time I even told him that I knew that if I went to his house we would just end up yelling and I wanted to be by myself until the situation blew over and everyone was calm and he got even more mad because I wanted to avoid the situation all together. Its just really hard to tell how he will react to certain things. Because something will happen and he'll act one way and be affectionate etc... and take it lightly. But the same exact thing could happen and if hes irritable he'll flip his lid. Just feels like he has some bad mood swings and I havent learned how to deal with them yet.

And trust only comes with time. I know hes scared that Im just going to do to him the things his ex used to do but I don't know how to show him I wont without him just seeing over time that I wont.

Thanks for replying rhap.