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Oct 30, 2008, 11:39 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2008
Posts: 8
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I feel like doing something really wrong. I posted under "I think my BF is a sex addict" and sex is a big problem in our relationship. He is more interested in masturbating than having sex with me. Every time we have sex, it's because I intiate it, and I end up having to "do things" to him in order for it to happen. It hurts and I really feel betrayed. Sex is always on "his terms" so whenever I want it, or bring it up, he gets mad and says that it's like a "chore" and that i'm selfish becuase i only want it when i want it, but i'd be happy whenever, and thats how we've been getting by. I'm getting tired of it though and I honestly am starting to think about having an affair so i can get my needs met. I know this is wrong in every way but I don't know what else I can do. He doesn't even like to talk about it so I know he wont go to counseling with me. He thinks there is no problem, so when i try to talk about it he gets mad.
Any advice is appreciated 
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