I believe my future ex wife has either one of those two disorders. I want her to change and she admitted something is seriously wrong with her if she wants to stay married to me but wants to go out with guys all the time and lies to me. I want her to get better, bc she wasnt always like this. She had small small symptoms and then this past January, she went guy crazy. She started hanging out with old HS friends and ex bfs and lying to me about it and then affairs happened, lies deceit the list goes on. I found out that she had gone out with at least one time with her current neighbor while I am here in IRaq after she promised she would stop seeing guys. I told her there is no way i can trust her from where i am at. But i want to keep a friendship so maybe somebody when she is better, we can be together

Also how could I hint to her T that she might have one of those two types of personality disorders?