One of the most important things if finding somebody who actually understand Adult ADD. MDs, Psychologists and in some states social workers can diagnose ADD.
A couple of places to begin to look for help are
www.add.org and
www.addconsults.com
Another great way to find a professional who understands Adult ADD is by word of mouth. You could try to find a local ADD Support group and ask for reccomendations. A a great place to hook up with local people who have adult ADD is through
http://adultadd.meetup.com