(((ice))) you matter hon... kindness is where its at.... you can be strong to know that you have helped many today to understand the emotions of losing a loved one... i know you are kind in spirit, loving in heart.... let love care for you and the children as you are so very good at... dont let yourself feel inadequate at all as long as you are always doing what you can for your best health with that kind part of you that we have seen, it automatically affects those in your company... loving compassion such as yours makes a big difference in how i view the world.. just seeing it is there helps me remember that as i walk thru my days.... thank you always..