Justification....a process that usually begins with us believing we are being slighted...

Sometimes we find it..sometimes we don't,,but if we go ahead with an action built upon our rational..more often than not we end up with another problem..

Shame.

Think long and hard GirlieMama...and if there seems to be no compromise and this issue is critical to you...try a separation..and see if the grass is truely greener..

With care,

Lenny