You know... YOUR RIGHT! I paused when I wrote that last statement and asked myself..."Am I supposed to be upset when someone drops the ball and leaves me feeling hurt and unimportant?"

I guess I really don't know what a healthy response to this situation really is. I do however know... that my typical response...(attacking myself for being an idiot and allowing others close enough to hurt me)... is not a good one.

I know it doesn't mean much coming from me, but your response so far seems a lot more ...evolved...but escalating.

I really hope he contacts you back and gives you an opportunity to express your anger and hurt to him before your next divorce meeting. I hope you don't have to sit all week without an opportunity to deal with it.