Hi guys,

I am a single mother of an 8 month old (Michael), whos father is a bit of a flake. He says that he wants to be involved but has only seen him twice in the last 6 months. My brother whom I live with is moving in with his girlfriend at the end of the year and I have been thinking of moving back interstae to be with the rest of my family for some support. It will also be easyer financially as I will be living with my sister.

I have explained this to Joel (Michael's father) and he said I will do what I have to, and almost cried . I feel really bad moving Michael away from him, but I dont have many friends here and am tired of being lonely.

Is this selfish or is it the right thing to do, I meen I will be in a better place back home and have more money wich I think will intern make a better situation for my son.

Just looking for some advice
Thanks in advance.

Eleanor.