(((sunrise)))
You have done such an amazing job, through all of this. You said it yourself -- you got overwhelmed. When we're overwhelmed, the logical side of the brain doesn't work so well.
It can be so easy to get caught up in one bad moment, and replay it a hundred times over. Try to remember all of the good strong moments to balance it. I'm sure the strong moments vastly outnumber the weak moments in this process.
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Originally Posted by sunrise
T was at the meeting, as usual, as he is serving as the coach. A few hours after the meeting, I emailed him and asked him to reconcile his bill...It is highly unusual that I would do this.
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Why do you think you did this?
My first thought about it was it was a means to regain some control. Was there something in T's behavior during the meeting that left you feeling unsupported?
I'm so sorry that T is taking his sweet time to respond. I hope that he does contact you soon, and that before your next meeting you can find some resolution. It is very possible that this admittedly uncomfortable situation could lead to real growth. (I don't mean to discount your current anger, just offer some hope.)
