okay, so, i think i lost my sexual desire and i might know the reason, but knowing the reason doesn't help me. my T helped me figure out the reason but i still need help to solve the problem. please help.

okay, so, this is why i lost my sexual desire (according to my T)

just to let you know, i am 16 years old, male, and gay.

when i was 8 years old, me and my best friend somehow became interested in each other after school one day and this is what sparked my sexual desire. we never did anything more this kissed and messed around, nothing serious. shortly after, he moved. this was disappointing but shortly after he moved, i moved to. to arkansas, where i met another guy when i was about 11. he was the same age as me.

anyway, me and him seemed to click as soon as we met, and before i knew it, we were boyfriends and i could have never been happier. and this is the one guy i consider my first real bf because we were serious, we did everything.

unfornately, he moved last year because his dad found a new job. we both hated this. 4 years togethor just ended like that. it was probably the worst day of my life, but we couldnt help it, and before i knew it, he was gone. even worse, we have no way to talk to each other. i have a cell phone, but he doesn't and i dont know where he lives exactly. we never told out parents because we didnt want them to know.

this was almost a year ago.

recently, i found another guy that i really like but i have no sexual desire. we're happy togethor and all, but i want to be complete with him you know. like i was with my last. i know i cant get my last back, but i want what i had with him with my new.

i know it takes time but can anyone help me? please. thank you in advance.