I hate to be the bad apple in the bunch but by the time my wife and I found out she was depressed, she had hurt me big time by cheating on me. I have accepted what she has done and forgiven her, but now she is totally different. I looked around on the internet (i know not the most reliable source but its something) and the symptoms fit her all too well for Histrionic Personality Disorder. I am in the military and serving in Iraq right now and found out she lied to me AGAIN about going out with a neighbor some weeks ago. Now I cannot trust her at all. I love the woman, or should I say, I love the woman underneath the HPD, and I know she is there, but so little comes out after it gets through the HPD that it wasnt enough to keep me going. Now I am using my time here in Iraq as the seperation and unless a miracle happens, she and I will no longer be married when I get home.
Sorry guys...