I would never judge you Tinkerbell. We all have issues here and as the saying goes those who live in glass houses shouldn't throw rocks.

I fess up about things myself because when I was a teen I went to a therapist and lied about most things. Mostly so that my boyfriend didn't end up in jail due to statitory rape. I found that it didn't help me to keep quiet and vowed that this second time around I would be honest and hope that it would make all the difference. Besides, you are paying them to listen and help you and not to judge you. They wouldn't be a very good T if they didn't know enough by now to know that judging someone isn't going to help them.