is what I mean! The responses you keep getting are like whipped cream over your problems; a cute bandaid on your cut (sore parts) You're not getting suggestions! You're getting "words of comfort" not ideas on how to dig yourself out of that "hole" you seem to be in.....if you're not getting what you really need from people in this forum

It's time to yell a little louder & try to focus on what you need & let people know exactly what you need! You seem to have very "deep-seated" hurts/feelings/thoughts....EXPRESS YOURSELF! Let us know what you really need....otherwise you will get nothing but "Hallmark" words of comfort!

DO NOT!!!GET ME WRONG! Words of comfort can be a beautiful feeling of warm fuzzies, but it doesn't get you anywhere w/ what you're having a hard time with! I keep hearing from ppl that are tired of complatency. Warm fuzzies are great! BUT "they don't pay your rent!"

Am I making any sense yet? If not, tell me to blow off! I'll never bother you again. MY POINT IS: if you want my help (or anybody else's) you have to specify; ask for it!! Get your needs met!

Otherwise; what good is a forum for? RSVP! PM me! I'm always around for a serious talk!

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