I'm new here, but I think I understand what Dayzee is trying to say.

I think I've been guilty of starting a topic and then wondering why no one answers. Duh, it's because I didn't say HELP, I NEED HELP. It sounded more like a vent post. I went in to chat, reluctantly because I didn't want to sound like a whiner, and about 15 minutes later I was able to calm down and felt much better.

SJ, maybe if you go into chat and can talk to someone in real time, you'll be "heard" a little better.

I hope I didn't step on any toes or threadjack or anything. Just wanted to say what worked for me today when I was feeling sad and blue.