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Old Nov 01, 2008, 06:20 PM
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I can't help but AGREE with all other posts here. SOMETHING IS WRONG HERE!!!! This man is not acting like a husband at all. He acts like someone who is dishonest and who uses people not loves them. RED FLAGS indeed!!!!

Please get some help to protect yourself from this kind of ill-treatment. This is not marriage. He is living like a "kept" man. I would suspect there is some secret here that his money is being spent on or his money is being saved up for him or for another family or something.

You must trust your instincts, they are screaming at you that something is very wrong here. Do not let this man victimize you. Act carefully though and protect yourself physically. He has not done one thing to put something into the marriage, he has only TAKEN from you.

I am so sorry this has happened, but you are not wrong to be very suspicious and unhappy with this arrangement.
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