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Old Nov 01, 2008, 07:56 PM
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Why do you think you did this?
My first thought about it was it was a means to regain some control. Was there something in T's behavior during the meeting that left you feeling unsupported?
No, it was just a financial decision as I wanted to pay him the money H and I owe him before we closed out our joint account. However, I also think it was a little bit of a way to reach out to him. Interesting that when I send him an email asking how much money we owe him, he responds within an hour.

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I'm so sorry that T is taking his sweet time to respond.
Thanks, SpottedOwl, I'm feeling better. I guess with time, it hurts less. He won't be responding, I am sure.

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Originally Posted by chaotic13
I really hope he contacts you back and gives you an opportunity to express your anger and hurt to him before your next divorce meeting. I hope you don't have to sit all week without an opportunity to deal with it.
Yes, chaotic, that's how it will be. C'est la vie.
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