I need some real help from people with experience. My sisters husband has had a lot of down sides to his life from dwarfism to neglectful parents. Now my sister has been with her husband for about a year married. A few short months dating. It's all so sudden. Now yesterday He took his own life in their home at that. She has to live life after him. How do I talk to her? I mean I want to know exactly what went on but I'm afraid to much to soon will push her. She is one of those people who just cant help but fall apart. Lost her first child in January this year. Still born. Her adopted mother has breast cancer finding this out in February. Now her husbands death. Gosh I'm not one to brag but my life is so much better then hers is right now. I'm not for sure how to help her now. I'm afraid and concerned for her mental health now. I don't want her to do anything stupid. But there is no bond between us seeing how she was adopted at a very young age. So as adults we speak but not often enough. I'm trying to be there for her but I have a one year old and a husband. My opinion might not mean much to her at this time. To her I'm the enemy right now. How can I help her. Like what can I say to comfort her. :helpme: :helpme: