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---"I try so hard to do what ever one exspects of me but I can't. I am never good enough. I try and be everyones everything but i'm faliling miserably. "---
Does this seem like a HUGE weight on your day to day life? So many good people try hard to please others around them and to fulfill their expectations. It's clear that you have a big heart and care for others. People like you deserve to do your own thing, create your own expectations, and find your own path. Doing what everyone expects of me makes me feel inhuman and like I'm trying to be somebody else. It hurts and makes me feel sick.
"Being everyone's everything" can cause A LOT of stress because it's impossible. Anyone who can come even close to it is incredibly capable of doing great things for them self. It just takes learning confidence and directing those efforts to yourself.
--- "If anyone has any ideas on how to fix my faliure of a life so far please let me know" ---
How high are your expectations for yourself? Sometimes they are so high that it will be impossible to reach and lead to a perception of "failure"... not real failure. Your life is not a failure, you are not ugly, and your weight is fine. How does that last statement make you feel? We are all a work in progress and few of us are anywhere near how we want to be.
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" "The mind is mightier than the cane!" "
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