(((((Listen w/ quiet heart, SJ? )))))))

Hey Sweetie:
Please listen w/ a quiet heart for just a moment, please?

I was not trying to "re-write" any "guidelines for forums." I've just been noticing lately that there were a lot of new members who have been approaching the forums in search of support & weren't finding it & have sent PM's my way. SO?

Well, I tried the "hard-ball approach" that I have had to use with some of my patients in the past (YES, you're NOT my patient -- we come here as equals)shhhhh.....please listen!

The ultimate throw you have to give some people is that you just need to be a little more specific as to what they need! I've read so many posts from you over the past weeks -- you are obviously hurting -- I hate to see that...and if you have read ANYTHING about my past, well....I get a little pushy when I don't see things progressing fast enough. This is my "problem" In the healthcare system (even in Psych) they are shoving "Time Mgmnt Techniques" down our throats, so to "process" patients thru faster (One reason why I am unemployed..I don't agree w/ this 'format'") I'm sorry you had to be the target of this bit of s**** that was getting stuffed in MY head...it should NOT have been at your expense, and for that, I am TRULY sorry!

Some times, my fingers fly faster on the keyboard, than my brain....the result: OBVIOUS! I have hurt you and it was uncalled for and unfair...

PLEASE DON'T SHUT UP! You have been an active and positive part of this forum process..I have not. My "paint" is still not dried totally, thus, I have to "feel my way" around forums, subjects and like you....individuals! It must always remain permanent that all of us who come forward to these forums are all very different individuals. YOU are a separate, feeling individual....and I shouldn't have been "practicing my hardball techniques on you" Once again, my dear.........

And to anyone else that may have taken offense..I am equally as sorry...I just get frustrated. I'm NOT saying "I'm better" but I HAVE been more "exposed" to deep, heavy, complicated practices of Tx" This does NOT give me the authority or right to "practice it" on ANY of you...we are equals here.
No titles; no credentials.........this is the space where we are just all "human". We all have our shortcomings...I have exhibited one of mine.

I hope all will forgive.................

((((((((((((((((w/ DAYZEE))))))))))))))))))