I'm on disability and my dad is my payee and he seems to think that means controlling every single little penny and making it squeak as it gets spent.

I know he thinks he is doing his job but it drives me nuts. I have tried several times to ask him to ease off but he won't. I don't want him as my payee and have asked him if I could have someone else but he won't let me.

All my life I have had to deal with his controlling my life and it's not just me that he controls he does it with everyone. My mom is getting it too.

I envy my sister she lives in Germany and is married so she doesn't have to deal with him.

Jbug