Dazzle, this is an important discovery. Truly getting better involves self discovery and understanding.....

Understanding the whole avoiding confrontation and then being able to overcome it would be a huge victory. I used to be afraid of confrontation. I forced myself to do it anyway, heart beating out of my chest, blood drained from my face...... I worked through it and now it is history. Everyone starts at a different place, however, so everyone would need to figure out where they need to start, what they can handle....